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My book has received some fabulous reviews already, including the one below.  

5.0 out of 5 stars Thought-provoking, insightful and essential book

‘A great book written from professional and personal experience. James brings his analysis to life with real-life examples from his years of supporting men. He has an accessible writing style but provides a passionate and insightful guide to inner feelings and how they can affect our day-to-day relationships. As a husband, son, father and friend this book has made me reflect on my own deeper feelings and how we impact on those around us.

The book is also genuinely funny in places and one is left feeling better equipped after finishing it. I have recommended it to male friends but am also aware of female friends who have bought it in the hope of both getting a better understanding of their partners and also encouraging them to better understand themselves.’

Hope you enjoy it,

Best wishes, James

James Hawes is a Psychotherapist, Author, Speaker, Supervisor and Trainer.  He is an advocate of positive change and on a lifelong mission to impart people with the tools they need to cultivate a wide spectrum of emotional expression becoming emotionally fit as a result. Over two decades, James has gained extensive experience in his field, helping hundreds of men, boys, couples, families and teenagers along the way.

I now sit down and discuss problems instead of shouting and getting angry’

I now sit down and discuss problems instead of shouting and getting angry

Greedy for more!’

Greedy for more!’

This book is a really interesting read.

“This book is a really interesting read.  It’s full of useful information and makes you think about your use of language and emotional reach.  The layout helps you digest the key themes as well as providing thoughtful hints and tips to improve. I’m sure it will help lots of men and women and I’m going to buy another copy for my son!.”

Vikki H

Painfully insightful

Painfully insightful

Very well written and researched. Fantastically thought provoking. Quite honestly I’m having to read it in small portions as it’s so painfully insightful! Even my Dad has quietly been looking at it with interest. But a copy for every man you know and every women who’s interested in how men work.     Ameet

Ameet

Pam Wolliston (Dr)

As a female reader, I couldn’t wait to dive into James Hawes’ first book, The Secret Lives of Men. Now, having read it, I can report that it is candid, insightful and provocative.

Although the E-motions and behaviours which James describe, in this gem of a book, come from his case files, there are also some well chosen nuggets which caused me to break out into fits of laughter. I would certainly say that this book is for anyone who wishes to get a new perspective on men

Pam Wolliston (Dr)

‘Brilliant – your enthusiasm for the subject is infectious’

Brilliant – your enthusiasm for the subject is infectious